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FAQ

Short answers about the rating mechanic.

What is "the bar"?

The bar is the private 1–10 minimum each person sets for ratings they want to receive from the other side. It is never shown to anyone else.

Do we see each other's ratings?

Only after both sides clear each other's bar — at that moment both numbers are revealed to both people.

What if only one side clears?

Nothing happens. No notification, no "almost", no hint a rating occurred.

Why feet photos specifically?

Faces already carry an outsized weight on other dating platforms. Feet are a deliberately unusual, unambiguous aesthetic axis — one that most people aren't secretly optimizing for or against. It's a coordination signal away from face-driven judgement, not a fetish play.

How do I join?

Waitlist only during private alpha — add yourself here.

Can I delete my photos?

Yes, any time, permanently — photos and ratings are removed within 24 hours.